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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
National Competition on Worries.
- Hello. - Thank you.
Let me introduce today's panel.
We have the adorable Lim Jung Eun.
(Actress Lim Jung Eun)
- Defconn. - Hello.
Nam Woo Hyun.
- And Jo Jung Min. - Hello, I'm Jo Jung Min.
Jung Eun got married recently.
- Yes. - Her face is glowing.
Is your husband still good to you?
- Do you have no worries? - I have none at all.
I think we're a cause of concern for other couples, though.
- Why is that? - We act so corny.
Do you show how much you're in love?
Yes, we do.
How? Can you pretend Defconn's your husband?
Say he just came home.
He doesn't look at all like him, but still.
Defconn rang the doorbell.
- Sorry I'm late. - Honey.
What did you secretly eat that made you this fat?
I just ate what you cooked.
(She giggles.)
She can't deal with the difference.
- Oh, dear. - She can't.
- Try with Woo Hyun, then. - Yes, him.
Defconn doesn't look like a newly wed.
I'm more like a step dad.
A step dad?
I'm home.
Honey.
(She blows a kiss.)
You're doing things we didn't expect.
Doesn't your husband complain if you're this random?
- He loves it. - Does he?
At the moment we're very happy and don't have a single worry.
I think the husband does all the worrying.
Woo Hyun, you're the first in your team to go solo.
- The first soloist. - Yes.
Infinite's famous for their choreography.
- Yes. - Ballads don't require dancing.
- You can't sing and do this. - I can't.
(I doubt no one else can do that.)
I feel awkward having to make gestures that go with ballads.
Just sing us the song.
Why not?
("Still I Remember" by Nam Woo Hyun)
(It's as if he was born as a sentimental ballad singer.)
(Making ladies swoon)
(What a lovely voice.)
- Give him a warm hand. - Thank you.
- What a nice song. - I like it.
Jung Min, are you the Ko So Young of the trot world?
- Well... - You do look a bit like her.
Why do you sing trot?
I'm actually older than I look.
- How old are you? - Are you over 50?
- Are you 50? - You're older than me.
I'm too old to join a girl group,
but I'm young for a trot singer.
- How young is young? - One year old?
I'm 31 years old.
- And you're a baby? - Yes.
Is that your official age?
I was born in 1986, the year of the tiger.
"Let's Break Up" from last week, won four consecutive times.
One more win makes it five. We haven't had that in a while.
- It hasn't happened in months. - That's right.
How do you think it'll feel?
Will you let your son go?
Just a few days ago my son said,
"Mum, we won four times. Can't you just let me go?"
So I'll let him go.
- This is a huge change. - It is.
Then there's her husband.
Each time someone came on the show,
he listened and gave good advice. I think I'll miss you.
- He was like one of us. - He was.
Thanks to this programme, my wife is considering retirement.
- It's a miracle. - I see.
I recently had to register online, so I thought of a new nickname.
It's "Hello Jin".
You gave me some good memories,
and I'd like to thank you.
I hope the programme keeps going...
so that you can make a positive impact on society.
What a lovely way to wrap up.
Let's see if they manage to win once more.
We will give the winner a 1,000 dollars gift certificate.
Five wins will get you a 10,000 dollars gift certificate.
- They might get it, then. - Yes.
Let's see who they have to beat. Show us the keywords please.
("Woman with No Brakes", "I Can't Breathe", "Get Off Me")
This is "I Can't Breathe".
Hello, I'm a 28-year-old man who writhes in pain every day.
- I hate home more than anywhere. - Why?
I feel like I'll suffocate.
When I go into the bathroom in the morning...
What's wrong?
When I'm eating...
What's going on?
(Gagging)
What is wrong with you?
That's what it says here.
- It sounds so real. - The cigarette smoke...
makes me feel like I'm in CBR training every day.
My father smokes in the house.
In the house?
If I try to watch some TV...
"Dad, can you not smoke in the living room?"
"What? How dare you say that to your own father?"
"Get out of the house if you can't stand it."
"Get me a cigarette!"
- He's scary. - Our wallpaper was white.
Now it's yellow.
- Our plants are dead. - Why wouldn't they be?
When my married brother visited,
things got worse.
He has a 10-month-old daughter.
- No way. - A 10-month-old?
- He smoked in front of her. - He wouldn't, would he?
No way.
"Your granddaughter's here. Can't you smoke outside?"
"What for? I smoked around you when you were babies."
"If you don't like it, you can leave."
- Jung Eun's in shock. - "Get out!"
Who is this?
- I can't stand it anymore. - This is bad.
Can you help me out so I can at least breathe?
This is serious.
Everyone goes outside to smoke these days.
- Even that's restricted. - If you smoke on the veranda,
your upstairs neighbour complains.
That's a huge problem.
Jung Eun had a huge shock at the part with the baby.
My child is 16 months old now.
What if someone smoked in full view?
I can't stand it. My husband had quit,
but he started smoking again, and though he doesn't smoke at home,
- I react at the smell of him. - You would.
Do we have to listen to this? Let them win and go home.
They won already.
This is a huge concern.
This is the worry of a son whose father smokes in the house.
Please come on out.
(The son whose dad smokes in the house)
- He doesn't need help. - Men are fine.
He can manage.
(This is how a ballad singer dances.)
Let's dance.
Introduce yourself.
I am being tortured by cigarette smoke.
I'm 28-year-old Im Hyung Su. Hello.
It must be so tough.
I feel sorry for you.
Your face is coated with nicotine and tar.
I pity you.
Does your father smoke a lot?
- It must be exaggerated. - Seriously.
To me, going home feels like a CBR training.
- Is it that bad? - In the morning,
I turn on the ventilator...
and spray air freshener and then I can go inside.
Do the towels smell?
Even the clothes we hung out to dry smell like cigarettes.
If I put them on, they smell.
People will think you smoke.
Do you smoke?
I can't stand the smell.
- I lived with it my whole life. - Did you never try?
Never.
- Because of this. - Even smokers...
don't like to inhale other people's smoke.
- It's different. - And if a towel...
smells after you washed your face...
- That's annoying, even for smokers. - It really is.
That's why in our house, we use over 20 air fresheners a month.
- That's dry cleaner level. - The spray cans?
That only lasts a while.
Didn't you ever tell your father to please stop smoking?
Were you ever serious about it?
- We did, seriously and politely. - And?
He said, "Am I a beggar?"
"Why should I smoke outdoors?"
- "Most Korean men smoke." - Indoors?
- But not indoors. - No one does this.
I have never met this father in my life,
- but one man has a grimace. - I can tell who he is.
Is he here?
- Of course. - I see him.
- He has to be here. - How are you, Sir?
(The father who smokes up the house)
Is it you?
- Hello. - That's him.
Hello.
He's greeting everyone around him.
It's nice to meet you all.
He's really confident.
If he wasn't full of confidence,
he wouldn't be able to smoke at home.
Did you know your son felt this strongly about you smoking?
I didn't know he would over react to this extent.
- He didn't complain this much. - I see.
He's been giving me a hard time these days.
He said you smoke in the living room.
- Your family shares that space. - That's right.
It's too cold to smoke on the veranda in the winter.
- It's freezing. - So winter only?
Not in spring, summer or fall?
It's hot in the summer.
Do you smoke elsewhere in spring and fall?
Does the pollen bother you?
I smoke when watching sports.
- On TV? - Korean major league players...
make me feel nervous.
I see.
- So I smoke out of habit. - You aren't the one playing.
Do you smoke in the morning, also?
This is very hard for non smokers who have to put up with this.
Why do you get upset when they complain?
You should be apologising.
- They complain about the smell. - Right.
They smell, too.
My son smells weird, too.
Because he's single.
Could you describe what the smell is like?
He doesn't smell.
- I have two sons. - Okay.
They complain at the same time.
They attack, and it's two to one.
They bully me.
They gang up on me.
Do you not speak to each other?
- Do you not talk? - You don't seem too close.
We haven't spoken in 10 years.
- Why not? - Because he smokes.
Did you argue?
I feared him as a child.
I see why.
- I avoided him. - I see.
- I get it. - Do you just ignore him, then?
On special occasions like holidays or Hello appearances...
- What? - "Hello appearances"?
(This is a special day.)
- Being on TV. - It's a big deal.
- Does it happen often? - It's a special occasion.
- We speak only on special days. - I see.
It's like our family is just for show.
So you only speak during family gatherings.
- Others think you're fine. - Exactly.
Did you ever consider moving out?
- Being independent. - Well...
I thought about it very often.
I hated the smell and smoke so much that...
I said I'd move out.
Each time, my mother says,
"I can't live without you."
(He worries about his mother.)
She says that all the time.
Are you very close with her?
- We're both victims. - Victims?
- So... - Is it a support group?
- We have a bond. - As victims.
We understand and sympathise.
- My mother weeps. "Please stay." - Does she cry?
- She should be down here. - Right.
Let's meet her.
That must be her. Hello, how are you?
- Hello, everyone. - Nice to meet you.
You're all so bright and cheerful.
They're just for show.
I guess they agreed to say hello cheerfully.
Is this so tough on you that it makes you cry?
(What's the worst part?)
When he's drunk and angry, he smokes in our bedroom.
- In your bedroom? - Yes.
(That is so selfish.)
- That's terrible of you. - The ashtrays...
There's cigarette ash all over the bathroom floor.
He should at least wipe it away, but he's rude and he doesn't.
- Does he leave it? - Everywhere.
Oh, dear.
I rinse the bathroom floor as I leave,
and complain inwardly about all the stress.
- Is that how you swear? - Inside.
"This is so stressful."
I can't say it out loud.
- Then he shouts. - At you?
Yes.
Even a grown 28-year-old son says he fears his father.
Even more so for you.
A few years ago, in the middle of the night,
I had difficulty breathing.
My pupils dilated and I couldn't breathe.
As soon as I got to the ER, I was given an oxygen mask.
I recovered fully after about four hours.
- What a relief. - I could breathe on my own,
and then I consulted the doctor.
He said my respiratory system was very weak.
- Did he say so? - If my husband heard that,
he should make an effort to quit smoking.
- Did he smoke? - Yes.
- In the bedroom? - Everywhere.
- Was there no change? - None.
Sir, your own wife's health has deteriorated.
If you can't quit,
don't you think you should go outside to smoke?
Doesn't that bother you?
I added a few more ventilators and fans to the house.
- I see. - Okay?
For everyone's health.
(Hang on.)
- This is unbelievable. - I did try.
Don't do something that will cause trouble in the first place.
My mother recently had a full physical checkup.
- What were the results? - Very bad.
- She... - Her lungs?
She has hyperlipidaemia. Her cholesterol levels are high.
And she has vascular dementia.
- Vascular dementia. - Is that a thing?
We have a copy of his mother's health report.
From the doctor.
- It's high. - Look.
It says she has to change her lifestyle.
"Change eating habits. Quit smoking." That's what it says.
Her cholesterol levels are through the roof.
- Stress is a factor. - Yes.
- She's in the danger zone. - I'm stressed.
And vascular dementia.
I've never heard of vascular dementia before.
Even after finding out about my mother's health issues,
my dad still smokes indoors.
Did you have a physical checkup, Sir?
I feel perfectly fine so far.
(He feels fine.)
What do you think about your wife's condition?
If my smoking contributed to her current condition,
then I am responsible.
- It says "quit smoking". - It says it is.
- Is the doctor clueless? - Does it say that?
She doesn't smoke and he said she should quit.
I want to ask...
if you think this isn't related to your smoking.
I'm not so sure.
Even iron rusts after a long time.
It does.
So you don't think smoking is a factor here.
My wife has always been weak.
We all know that.
I don't know if the bad results are because of my smoking.
We actually had a conversation with the doctor.
We'll continue this topic after watching the video.
Here's the doctor's interview.
The reason the lady came in to the ER with difficulty breathing,
in my opinion,
is directly related to second hand smoke.
(It's 100 percent related.)
I can't say her cholesterol levels were caused by the smoke,
but it definitely did contribute to worsening the condition.
I'll give you examples of patients I treated.
One gentleman insisted on smoking indoors,
and he had lung cancer.
Even his wife did as well.
Someone with high cholesterol and a weak respiratory system...
could have a stroke and...
end up with partial or even total paralysis.
She is more likely to develop lung, breast or stomach cancer...
within the next two years.
She could even have a heart attack tomorrow.
This might be a harsh thing to say,
but I think the husband is slowly killing his wife.
I plead to the husband...
to quit smoking.
If he can't quit right away,
then he should at least not smoke at home.
That would be best for his wife.
That's serious.
Medically speaking, this is a serious issue.
How do you feel now?
- I'm scared. - I bet you are.
- It's scary. - It's serious.
You said yourself that...
your wife had always been weak.
You've smoked for over 30 years and you're still okay...
because you are tough.
It might not be a huge deal to you,
but for weaker people, second hand smoke can be deadly.
She's much weaker.
(If he changes,)
(all that can be prevented.)
I bet that was a huge shock. The whole family's here today.
They want a solution. Are you the elder son?
- They need help. - Hello.
Hi, everyone.
- They planned that. - Look at how he waves.
They wanted to look fine.
Can the whole family say hello together?
All of you.
Look how happy they look.
You live with your family now, so you must be fine.
It's still an issue for me.
I have a beautiful 10-month-old daughter.
- I see. - We have a child.
What's upsetting is that...
she has a congenital heart defect.
It's called an atrial septal defect.
- She has it? - Yes.
She also has pulmonary stenosis.
- Oh, dear. - She'll get tested in July,
and will either get treated or have surgery.
The doctor told us to make sure she is not...
exposed to dust and that she should never catch a cold.
My father heard the news.
Everything in his home, the curtains, the sofa...
- They reek. - Yes.
The smell is everywhere.
I bring up the issue very cautiously.
"Dad. We have a child, so can you please..."
"go outside to smoke?"
That's when he loses his temper.
What does he say?
"How dare you? Are you here to ruin my mood?"
"If so, get out."
We always clash.
I even tried to...
get rid of all the ashtrays and cigarettes I could find.
But then my mum said, "You have a home to return to."
"I have to deal with the aftermath."
I would love to have my mother live with us,
- but we can't afford to. - Is it that bad?
Sir, shouldn't you smoke outside...
at least when your granddaughter is over?
It's...
Do you feel embarrassed?
I find it very uncomfortable to sit here and listen to this.
- I'm sure you do. - It's very stressful.
Will you stand, then?
I might faint if I were to stand.
I think this is what happened.
He never imagined that his smoking could cause...
such serious problems or afflict such torture.
But now he's realising he was wrong,
and that's causing him a lot of stress.
Did something happen to you that made you rely...
- so heavily on smoking? - I wonder.
- I tried to quit. - Okay.
- And I did. - Good.
But for some reason, a lot of...
bad things happened to us.
(Bad things happened.)
My sister died suddenly.
Oh, dear.
And not so long after, my older brother passed away.
(He lost two siblings.)
I looked around and realised I had no one to turn to.
That's how I ended up smoking.
(Smoking helped him through it.)
I think I relied a lot on cigarettes.
We understand that, don't we?
Once, I suddenly lost my job.
(He lost his job.)
That was five years ago.
All I wanted was someone to comfort me.
It would've been nice if my family was there for me.
That hurt.
Were you aware of this? He has tried to quit smoking.
There have been a lot of heartaches, too.
I had no idea. No matter what happened,
he should care more about those who remain by his side.
- That's right. - He has a point.
When my brother leaves...
after a visit,
my father takes out his anger on me and my mother.
He takes out his anger on you and your mother.
- When he drinks at home, - He drinks at home.
he chain smoke for an hour.
Does he chain smoke for an hour?
Smokers tend to smoke more when they drink.
I have a few drinks when I am upset...
and try my best to make up to my family.
However,
my wife treats me coldly.
I would appreciate it if she tries to find out how I am...
and treats me nicely.
She is cold hearted.
She never speaks to me kindly.
- Her words are cold. - That's right.
- Do you treat him coldly? - Do you?
I guess she does.
Do I treat him coldly when he comes back home drunk?
I don't talk to him.
He wants to talk to you.
He says that he has no one else but you to talk to.
I wish he would talk to me when he is not drunk.
- It only happens when he is drunk. - I don't want to talk then.
Why do you only talk to her when you are drunk?
- You should be sober for it. - That's right.
She is scarier to talk to when I am sober.
- Who is? - My wife.
- Why? - You are scared of your wife.
Yes, I am. She always points out my flaws.
We opened this conversation...
- with the matter of smoking. - You are right.
However, smoking isn't the root of the problem.
- You are right. - There is deep resentment.
It's no longer a matter of smoking. Smoking led to...
much bigger problems.
Hyung Su's father is primarily at fault.
You did smoke for 30 years.
While he is primarily at fault,
it's sad that every family member is pointing fingers at each other.
It doesn't look like anyone has offered him kind words.
You need to speak nicely and listen to him...
so that he can recognise a problem and change.
You are good at acting cute.
Perhaps you can give them pointers on how to talk.
It would have been nice if he had a daughter like her.
What would you do if you were his daughter?
- Show us. - Please show us.
Dad,
I want to travel...
- live happily with you... - Look at that smile.
for many years to come.
- Sir. - My goodness.
Please be a bit understanding.
Please smoke on the porch.
No, I would appreciate it if you could smoke outside.
Sir, please talk to your daughter.
Please, Dad.
- Sir, please talk to your daughter. - Please, Dad.
(What will his answer be?)
I love you.
(What?)
- Sir! - For goodness' sake.
- Sir! - She is your daughter!
Why did you say "I love you"?
You blurted out what's on your mind, right?
- It's unconditional love. - Wait a minute.
He meant that he loves his daughter.
I have always wanted a daughter.
I meant that I love her as a daughter.
Sir,
let's say it was your daughter who has raised concerns.
Would you have said, "Okay, my daughter"...
- and treated her nicely? - I'm sure he would have changed.
- Would you have? - Of course.
- I see. - My sons are no fun.
Sons tend to be that way.
Ma'am, you should change your ways.
Your husband likes it when you act cute.
I will give you a demonstration.
(Are you sure?)
Honey, you had a long day, didn't you?
You can talk to me.
Why did you pick Dong Yeob?
I can't dictate what my heart wants.
(I'm just following my heart.)
Honey, I will give you a massage.
Tell me what is on your mind.
Stop touching me! For goodness' sake.
(It backfired.)
Honey.
(It produces a chain reaction.)
- You should try it. - She doesn't know how to act cute.
Your husband wishes it very much.
Not once in her life has she called me "Honey".
What does she call you?
- What does she call you? - Ji Su's dad.
What did she call you when you were dating her?
- Mister. - What?
- Mister? - Mister?
Mister.
Mister, please don't smoke.
(He loses his will to smoke.)
When you smoke,
a little girl's voice turns this way.
(I am sorry.)
Try speaking to your father warmly.
Since you haven't done it before,
- you need to try harder. - Give it a try.
- You want your father to change. - That's right.
Talk to your father.
He did open a heartfelt conversation.
Father, don't smoke in the house.
That should come later. Tell him that you love him first.
That's not what he wants to hear.
- He must have been lonely. - Tell him that you love him.
Father, I love you. I do.
(Upon hearing his words...)
His eyes turned teary.
Thank you, my son.
I love you, too.
(I love you, too.)
Continue on with the conversation.
Please don't smoke in the house from now on.
I won't ask you to quit smoking.
Please smoke outside the house. I love you.
I will try my best.
I will try to change.
My son, I am sorry for your troubles.
(My son, I am sorry for your troubles.)
- That was amazing. - Ma'am.
- Give her the microphone. - Ma'am.
- Ma'am. - Your son did it, too.
You should call him "Honey".
- Say, "Honey, I love you." - Ma'am.
Ma'am,
nothing will change if you don't change first.
Tell him how much you love and care.
Tell him, "I love you and I care about you."
- Please say a few words. - Give him a kiss on the cheek, too.
(Give him a kiss on the cheek.)
How nice!
- Look at him. - Have you never kissed him?
- My goodness. - He is leaning away from her.
- Sir. - Ji Su's dad.
- I will follow Hyung Su's example. - "Honey".
- "Honey". - "Honey".
- I won't tell you... - "Honey".
- to quit smoking completely. - "Honey".
Say, "Honey"!
- "Honey". - "Honey".
- "Honey"! - Ma'am,
we will say it with you if you are shy.
Everyone, say "Honey" on the count of three. One, two, three.
- Honey. - Honey.
I won't tell you to give up smoking entirely.
You have a beautiful granddaughter now.
When the baby is visiting,
please smoke outside the house.
Tell him that you love him and give him a kiss.
Hyung Su's father should do it.
He should initiate. Give your wife a kiss.
Sir.
Give her a kiss.
(My goodness.)
I am sorry for your troubles.
Please don't be sick and stay healthy.
- Give her a kiss. - Say, "I love you."
"I love you."
(He expresses his love...)
(by kissing the air.)
Sir.
How did they have two sons?
Let's vote. What does everyone think?
Since everyone promised to change,
- I don't think it's a worry. - I see.
With his will to change...
will come a time of pondering.
I think it's a worry. It's up to him to keep his promise.
- Woo Hyun. - Press the button.
I think it's a worry.
- I think it's a worry, too. - Three guests voted.
Love is starting to bloom in the family.
I hope they are happy.
If you think it's a worry,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- Five, four, three, two, one. - Five, four, three, two, one.
- Time's up. - All right.
Personally, I think it'd be a good idea...
if they could get new wallpapers.
It will create an environment he doesn't want to ruin by smoking.
They should get wallpapers...
- with "No smoking" written on them. - That's right.
(It will be suffocating for him.)
His granddaughter will be able to visit often now.
I will be sure to visit often with my daughter.
Be a filial son.
We will pray that the surgery goes well.
Give them a round of applause.
(Get well soon.)
Good luck!
Your child will become healthy...
from the good energy of the show.
I wonder how many votes this story got. Show us the result.
(The result)
- Let's see. - Is it over 100?
I wonder how many votes it got.
- 140? 150? - Is it 150?
It's 170.
All right.
- Thank you for your hard work. - Thank you.
(Eliminated, Survived)
Thank you.
"Get Off Me".
I am a 26-year-old woman who lives in Masan.
I have a stalker who follows me around...
every day.
(A stalker?)
This stalker follows me around like a leech.
Ring, ring.
"Where are you?"
Ring, ring. "Who are you with?"
Ring, ring. "Why aren't you answering your phone?"
- Is it the police station? - "Call me back."
"Why aren't you calling me back?"
Ring, ring. Ring, ring.
"Where are you?" Ring, ring.
(Screaming)
How scary!
I get 50 calls...
and 100 messages...
on a normal day.
Is it my boyfriend? No, it's not.
It's an employee at my clothing store.
(Why is an employee obsessed with the boss?)
It's a woman, too.
(It's a female employee.)
She obsesses over me.
Please stop looking for her.
Maybe she didn't get paid.
"Where are you going?"
"I am meeting a friend. Why do you ask?"
"Which friend?"
"How do you know this friend?"
"Where are you meeting her?"
"Wait a minute, take me with you."
(Take me with you.)
She watches my every move...
and follows me around closely.
One time, I was on a date...
with my boyfriend after work.
"Honey, it's really nice..."
"to be on a date with you."
"My goodness!"
"I looked everywhere!"
My goodness.
I got goosebumps.
She is a stalker.
"Why didn't you answer the phone?"
"Play with me. What should we do?"
No matter how hard I think, it's not a normal behaviour.
This isn't right!
That's the story.
(This isn't right!)
Maybe she didn't get paid on time.
Imagine your manager doing the same.
It simply doesn't make sense.
- What do you think? - Imagine someone following you.
What do you think?
- I am a bit like the employee. - What?
It's not to this extent,
but I want my manager to keep his eyes on me.
Even when you are at home?
Are you the one who sent the story?
That was a strange laugh. Even when you are at home?
Yes, I like it when my stylist...
- keeps his eyes on me. - Why is that?
- Do you crave for affection? - She must want attention.
- I think I crave for affection. - I see.
We should talk to her first, but I think the employee is the same.
Let's talk to a woman...
whose worry involves her obsessive employee.
Please come on out.
(Who is worried about an obsessive female employee?)
Hello.
My goodness.
That was fast.
Please introduce yourself.
Hello, I run a clothing store in Masan.
My name is Han Seung Hee and I am 26 years old.
All right.
Is it true that an employee...
of the same sex obsesses over you?
Yes, it drives me crazy.
It's not like she is my boyfriend. I get stressed out a lot...
that my employee acts this way.
Are you behind on paying her?
I pay her on time.
- But she still acts that way? - Why?
Why does she obsess over you?
I have no idea what is wrong with her.
Would you give us some details?
- We work from 10am to 10pm. - You stay together for 12 hours.
When my acquaintances or customers come into the store,
she stares at me while I talk to them.
When they leave, she says,
"Don't be friends with people other than me."
What? She doesn't want you to be close to other people.
- Is she jealous? - It's love.
- I got goosebumps. - It's love.
She follows me to the bathroom.
- Why does she do that? - Does she get scared easily?
I had to close the store since she insisted on following me.
She follows you even though she doesn't need to use the toilet.
That's right. She says we have to go together.
That's strange.
Can you give us more examples?
It gets worse when I get off work.
- Why? - I am free when I get off work.
"Where are you? What are you doing?"
"Who are you with? Send me a picture of your surroundings."
- A picture of your surroundings? - Yes.
- Yes. - That is what wives do...
when they're suspicious of their husbands.
What happens if you ignore her?
"A, B, C, D, E... One, two, three, four, five..."
- She sends you that? - My goodness.
She has called me 50 times.
- She is obsessive. - She video calls me, too.
- She video calls you. - When that happens,
I have to show her who I am with.
- Have you drawn a clear line? - Why does she do that?
I thought you like it when people pay attention to you.
You like it when people obsess over you.
- Not to this extent, right? - That's what you said.
- Not to this extent. - This is too much.
Everyone needs privacy during his or her own time.
"What are you up to? Come on."
"What are you up to? Come on. Where are you?"
"I'm bored. Hang out with me. Where are you?"
- "One, two, three, four, five..." - "One, two, three, four, five..."
"Read the messages."
"Seung Hee. Seung Hee."
- She sent a picture. - "I am with my friends."
(She ended up sending a picture of her surroundings.)
"Why didn't you invite me? Okay."
"Write me back. Sad face."
My goodness.
Doesn't she get tired of it?
"You are so mean."
- Doesn't she get tired of it? - "Please answer."
What is going on?
This is insane.
Is there a possibility...
that your employee is in love with you?
- Maybe she loves women. - We are asking...
if she is a homosexual.
She has a long term boyfriend.
Does she have a boyfriend?
- Yes. - Have you seen him?
- Yes, I have. - You have seen him.
Maybe she loves everyone.
Let's meet her employee.
Where are you?
Hello.
Let us ask you a straightforward question.
Why do you obsess over your boss?
I like her a lot.
She has things I don't have.
What do you mean?
While I am quiet and shy around strangers,
she is sociable and becomes close to people easily.
- You want to be like her. - Yes.
Why do you message her and ask where she is?
I want her to be close friends with me.
Do you get nervous when she isn't in front of you?
I get worried when she isn't in front of me.
A boyfriend would feel that way.
Do you have special feelings for your boss?
- Is it love? - No, it's not.
I just like her very much.
- You have a long term boyfriend. - Yes.
- You are still dating him, right? - Yes.
I think he is sitting next to her.
That's him.
- Look at his moustache. - Did you make one in a hurry?
- No, I didn't. - He has a moustache.
- It's Mexican style. - Let me ask you this question.
What are your feelings regarding your boyfriend?
I like him and I want to spend time with him.
Then again, I have similar feelings for Seung Hee.
- Do you have similar feelings? - I think she is confused.
I am curious. Why do you follow her to the bathroom...
when you don't need to use it?
The world is a scary place.
- She has a point. - On the news,
you hear about murders.
- You're worried about her. - Right.
I follow her to the bathroom because I am worried.
Then why do you message her...
- and ask for pictures? - "A, B, C, D, E..."
- Why do you do that? - "Where are you? You are so mean."
I get curious about her life outside of work.
You get curious about your boss' life?
I can't reach her at night.
I don't know what she does with whom.
- Why do you want to know? - She has life outside of work.
What kind of an employee...
wonders about her boss' life outside of work?
Can't she spend time with other people?
I can't reach her at night and I get worried.
Do you have an older sister?
- No, I don't. - What about a younger brother?
I only have a younger brother.
Do you get worried about your brother?
He can take care of himself.
You told us that she tracked you down...
when you were on a date with your boyfriend.
I was at a movie theatre with my boyfriend.
When she couldn't get hold of me, she found my boyfriend's number...
and called him 10 times.
- She called your boyfriend? - Yes.
He told her that I will call back after the movie ends.
Then he hung up. After the movie,
we found her in front of the movie theatre.
(Perturbed)
- Really? - Your boyfriend must hate it.
My boyfriend doesn't even want to see her face.
Has she tracked you down anywhere else?
- I was with my boyfriend at home. - Where?
- Where were you? - We were at my place.
When she couldn't get hold of me,
- she came to my place. - What were you doing?
- It's a business of adults. - We couldn't do anything.
- They were playing chess. - You two were...
whispering words of love.
She pounded on the door when I didn't answer the doorbell.
- She pounded on the door. - I see.
- What else happened? - One time, I was...
at my boyfriend's place.
His parents were there, too. She asked, "Where are you?"
I told her that I am at my boyfriend's place.
She came to the place a bit later.
How did she know where he lives?
She visited your boyfriend's place when his parents were there.
(An employee visited the place of her boss' boyfriend.)
His parents were taken aback.
- Of course they did. - It's not like I'm close to them.
- That's right. - When she came,
they asked me why my employee came here.
Why did you go to her boyfriend's place?
My place is near her boyfriend's place.
It wasn't even late at night. It was 2pm.
I just wanted to drop by and see her.
- It was inappropriate. - Was the store...
- closed for the day? - She must like her a lot.
- It was our day off. - I see.
Your boyfriend is sitting next to you, right?
Let's say you are with your future parents-in-law...
when Seung Hee visited you.
How would you feel? Wouldn't it feel strange?
I would welcome her and introduce her to them.
- They are future parents-in-law. - She visited without a call.
- Let's ask her boyfriend. - Wouldn't it be strange?
Let's ask Mario.
He is...
- the employee's boyfriend. - It would be strange...
- if that happens. - Right.
What do you think of her behaviours? Have you talked about this?
Even when she is with me, she messages,
- calls and video calls her. - She tries to talk to Seung Hee.
She tells me what her boss is doing and eating.
She gives me a running commentary.
It's as if I am invisible.
- You're her boyfriend. - Why didn't you say something?
- I know. - She doesn't change...
even when I talk to her.
How does she treat you? Does she obsess over you as well?
She doesn't ask me how I'm doing.
- It's different with her boyfriend. - Think of it this way.
If she obsesses over you like she does over her master...
- You mean her boss. - Her boss.
- "Master"? - Master.
How would you feel if she does that?
- I wouldn't date someone like that. - Let's say she obsesses over you.
It would be difficult to date someone like that.
- It would be too tiring. - Even a man feels that way.
- It would be harder on a woman. - Think about how hard it is on her.
Her employee came to her place when she was with her boyfriend.
Tell us about the incidents that hurt your feelings.
One time, I was sick.
I asked her to come by since I had no one.
She said that she will come, so I waited.
I couldn't reach her. I thought it was strange.
The next day, she told me that she had fallen asleep.
Was she lying?
She had visited her boss.
- She had visited her boss. - That's right.
Where had she visited Seung Hee on that day? Movie theatre?
I don't remember.
Your moustache makes you look worried.
Woo Hyun, ask her a question.
What is Seung Hee to you?
I want to know the answer.
I came to know her before I started working at her store.
We started working together because we are good friends.
Had she answered my calls and messages,
I wouldn't have been driven to an extreme.
It's not your boss' responsibility to do that.
- What boss reports to an employee? - Who would tell an employee...
where she is and whom she is with after work?
That's how the society works. After working hard,
co-workers go about their own ways.
- They spend time separately. - It's hard on Seung Hee...
to have her free time disturbed.
I want to become friends with her outside of work.
I don't like how our relationship is turning businesslike.
Even close friends don't call or message so often.
Not even best friends do that.
- This will only drive people away. - That's right.
- People need to eat every day. - Yes.
Even though I see Seung Hee throughout the week, I miss her...
when I don't see her for a day.
We've known each other for 22 years,
but we don't want to see each other every day.
- We never call each other. - We don't call each other at all.
- We never hang out after work. - She could just be curious.
Let's say I do that to Tae Gyun.
"Where are you? What are you doing?" If I ask him all the time,
he will go crazy.
- We would've disbanded. - Totally.
- He'll actually go crazy. - I'm curious.
- What do her friends think? - Right.
Let's ask them. Her friends are here today.
- They might understand her. - Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
What is your relationship with her?
I've been friends with Seung Hee for 10 years.
- Seung Hee is her name, right? - Yes.
I can totally understand why it is a worry for her.
There are five of us who are very close.
When the five of us are hanging out together,
she asks her to send photos.
She also shows up all of a sudden and wants to hang out with us.
Once, I bought clothes at her store,
and she said that she'd treat me for coffee,
so we went to the cafe together.
We took a photo together and posted it on social media.
We didn't even tell her where we were,
but she figured out which cafe it was from the background.
She closed the store for the day and came to the cafe.
- She closed the store for the day? - Yes.
- During business hours? - That's right.
- It gave me goose bumps. - She should be a detective.
That happened once.
She didn't even tell you to come.
Why did you close the store and go to the cafe?
I get jealous when I see her hanging out with her friends,
but these two are really close.
When I see them hanging out, I want to hang out with them, too.
But they never let me.
They always hang out with just the two of them.
Why do you want to hang out with them?
I just want to be their friend.
- But they never hang out with you. - That's right.
I'm sad because I think she just wants to treat me as her employee.
You could've fired her for behaving that way.
Is she good? Does she sell well?
She's pretty good at her job.
- I see. She's good at her job. - We're in the service industry.
I'm quite impatient, so I don't handle customer complaints well.
Customer service isn't my strong suit.
- Is she very friendly? - Yes, she is.
She can't fire her because she's good at her job.
- She's good at what she does. - She's a professional.
Let's say that your boss is telling you to quit.
What will you do?
If she's saying that because I made a mistake...
or I'm doing a bad job, then I would quit.
What if the reason is this?
- That'd be so unreasonable. - You think it's unreasonable?
She's not being unreasonable at all.
There will be no problem if she makes sure to call me often.
People usually only care about getting paid on time.
(A good boss should pay on time.)
But you just want her to call you often.
She seems to like you a lot.
She must listen to your directions and do everything you say.
- That's what I think. - Well...
- Not really. - No?
- She's not a good worker? - She doesn't listen to you?
She is a good worker, but she talks back to me all the time.
- Please give us an example. - If I tell her to do something...
If I tell her, "Yu Ra, organise the clothes."
- What does she say? - "There are customers."
"I can't do it now. I'll do it later."
When I tell her, "Yu Ra, send this parcel."
She says, "I'm working on the computer now. I'll do it later."
I end up doing all the petty chores because I get so frustrated.
So do you feel that she bosses you around at times?
- Even about cleaning tasks, - Cleaning the store.
she distributes the tasks.
- Pardon me? - She assigns tasks to me.
Does she say, "I'll clean here. You should clean over there"?
How does she distribute the tasks?
"Boss, go and wash the rags. I'll hang them."
- Come again? - She'll hang the rags?
I'm the boss. I should be hanging them, right?
Right. That should be your job.
Why do you do that? It should be the opposite.
You should wash the rags, and she should hang them.
I always feel like I'm working. They're extra tasks for me,
but she always does them half heartedly.
When it comes to cleaning the store...
You seem to be at a loss for words.
She's the boss.
- She's allowed to be like that. - But I already have other tasks.
We work together in that space. I think that it has to be fair.
When it comes to cleaning tasks, it has to be fair.
Well, she's saying all of that now,
but she just doesn't show up for work sometimes.
(She just doesn't show up for work.)
- Pardon me? - It's totally fine...
if she gives me notice a few days earlier.
Recently, she texted me after midnight saying, "I can't..."
"come to work tomorrow because it's my grandmother's birthday."
After midnight? So it was for the day?
- She just notified you. - That's right.
I asked, "Why do you have to miss work for your grandma's birthday?"
She said she had to see her since she hadn't seen her in three years.
Because of that habit of hers, I end up doing all the work myself.
Sometimes I wonder who is the boss between the two of us.
Does that happen often?
- How many times in a month? - Two or three times a month.
- That's very frequent. - Does she get regular days off?
We get Sundays off.
She's off on Sundays. Then do you take those days out of her pay?
I've never done that as it's usually for personal circumstances.
- So you pay her for those days? - Yes.
- That's very irresponsible. - I agree.
- Why didn't you tell her days prior? - Well, let me explain.
My parents never told me about it.
I came home from work late at night that day,
and my mum told me that we had to go to the birthday party.
I was also flustered myself as I found out about it last minute.
I had no choice but to tell her at that late hour.
- Okay, I can understand that. - Yes.
Your boss also said that you miss work a few times every month.
I have done that, but it wasn't every month.
As you know, we get Sundays off.
I can't make things pop up only on Sundays.
Sometimes, I get sick. When I am very sick,
that's when I miss work. I hope she can be more understanding.
- You two are good friends. - Yes.
However, I think that you two are starting to drift apart now.
You can't think that you can treat your friend in a certain way...
just because you're close.
If it keeps repeating, it creates a chasm.
Then your relationship will turn sour.
- The boss also has to... - You have to be respectful.
As a boss, you should also maintain your authority.
- Of course. - You must keep your distance.
You should learn to draw the line.
There's a famous saying, "You must protect your own pizza."
- Who said it? - Goodness.
- It must be from your brain. - It's my family's motto.
You should spit on other slices while eating your own slice.
You must protect what is yours at all cost.
I protect my pizza slices.
- "I protect my pizza slices." - That's right.
Tell Yu Ra what you haven't been able to tell her so far.
- Tell her what you want. - Treat her as your employee.
This is a great opportunity for you.
Yu Ra, I'm your boss, and you're my employee.
I think you're having a hard time accepting that.
It'd be great if you can accept the fact now.
Also, please understand that I need my personal time...
after work.
I'd love it if you could stop being so obsessive.
Remember that I'm your boss.
- "I'm your boss." - That's right.
Reclaim your authority and scold her.
If she continues this way, I'll have to fire her.
(I'll have to fire her.)
- You can do whatever you want. - I've never said it to her before.
Your boss will fire you if you don't stop it.
She doesn't want you to obsess over her after work.
- You should be considerate. - Right.
If she can make sure to call me often,
- I won't have to obsess about her. - Why does she have to call you?
Sometimes, you don't even realise that you missed a call.
- Why does she have to call you? - People can miss a call.
The audience made a disapproving sound for the first time today.
It's time to make our choices.
- Get ready to press the button. - It's so frustrating.
- I think it's a worry. - Right?
- It's a very serious worry. - Please press it.
If the same thing happened to her,
she wouldn't have been able to put up with it at all.
You said earlier that showing interest is a nice thing.
- No, I take that back. - What about you, Defconn?
It's definitely a worry.
I also think it's a worry.
- Good. - Yes.
- I think it's a worry, too. - All right.
All the guests on Hello say the same thing.
- They use love as an excuse. - That's right.
I've said this a few times. Love is actually...
not doing what the person dislikes.
You shouldn't do what Seung Hee doesn't like.
Sir, it goes for you, too. Listen to your wife and don't smoke at home.
- It's out of the blue. - It's not about what she likes.
You startled him. He was just sitting quietly.
- That's the essence of all issues. - Exactly.
Don't do what the person dislikes.
Everyone, put yourself in the boss' shoes.
If you think it's a worry,
please press the button!
(What does the audience think?)
This story was about an employee who wants her boss...
- to be her best friend. - Five, four, three, two, one.
- Time's up. - Time's up.
Please say a few words to your boss.
I'll try to hold myself back.
I'll do my best to stop being obsessive,
but I'd love it if we can become closer as friends.
- All right. - You two can be good friends.
It'll happen if you can hold yourself back a little.
Will the current winner be able to keep the position?
Please show us the result!
(The result)
- Did it get 182 votes? - Let's keep watching and find out.
- Is it 180? - No way.
- Did it get 182 votes? - Will it beat the current winner?
- This is nerve wrecking. - Goodness.
(Will it beat the current winner?)
We want to see the result!
Is the boss' worry bigger than the son's worry?
You got 152 votes.
If I were her, I'd be so nervous as well.
Hello, I'm worried about my mum who is on the road every day.
The telephone rings.
"Oh, Mum. Are you out again?"
"Mum, where are you now?"
"Oh, I'm in Pohang now. I'm out on a drive."
"Hi, my daughter. I'm in Yangyang in Gangwon Province now."
"Hi! I'm in Gyeongju today."
- Today, I'm in Hapcheon. - Why is she everywhere?
She goes everywhere.
I wouldn't have sent this story if she just enjoyed driving.
The problem is...
that what my mum rides is a mountain motorcycle.
(She rides a mountain motorcycle.)
I wouldn't worry if she rides it on flat roads.
- It's an uncommon hobby. - She rides it on mountains.
She climbs rocky mountain paths in her motorcycle.
Whenever there's a torrential rain,
she tells me, "I'm going out for a ride."
- Even in the rain? - Even when it's snowing hard,
she goes, "Oh, it's snowing! I should go out for a ride."
(I'll ride in the snow!)
- She rides every day. - Regardless of the weather.
One day, I got a call.
"Your mum is being taken to a hospital right now."
"She fell from a cliff and rolled down about 30m."
"Her head is injured."
Of course I've tried to stop her.
"Mum, you're worrying me so much."
"Please stop riding your motorcycle."
Then she said, "I can't live without my motorcycle."
"By the way, is my motorcycle okay?"
Gosh, she was worried about her motorcycle.
My mum has been riding her mountain motorcycle for 10 years.
Nowadays, my heart drops whenever my phone rings.
"Mum, I'm really worried about you. Stop riding your motorcycle!"
That's the story.
(Stop riding your motorcycle!)
When I go the countryside to shoot for "One Night Two Days",
I sometimes see older ladies riding four wheeled motorcycles...
like they're in "Mad Max".
- "Mad Max"! - They ride the four wheeled bikes.
Those ladies look so fierce on their motorcycles.
Those motorcycles are convenient for carrying large loads of stuff.
They're safe, too. I've never seen a woman riding a mountain bike.
I really want to meet this lady.
Her daughter must've sent us the story as it's a serious problem.
Let's meet her now!
(Who is the daughter worried about her motorcycle maniac mum?)
Hello!
(Lee Joo Eun)
Hello!
We can't quite grasp how serious the problem is.
Please tell us.
My mum rides her motorcycle in her every day life.
She rides it to go to places like nearby grocery stores.
- Even in your neighbourhood? - Even to family gatherings.
Yes, she rides her motorcycle in our neighbourhood.
- That's actually cool. - When our neighbours see her,
they stare at her and say, "Oh, my. What is she riding?"
- It will look strange. - Not many people ride those bikes.
- Is that her motorcycle? - Look at that.
Wait a minute. That's really big!
Isn't that for two people?
It's not those motorbikes you can ride in Gapyeong.
You can ride those if you pay 15 dollars, but they're smaller.
- They're usually 125cc motorbikes. - It's really like "Mad Max".
But it shouldn't be that big of a worry for you. What do you think?
Her motorcycle is four wheeled, not two wheeled.
- Don't you think it's cool? - Ever since she got into it,
she has been neglecting our family.
She's very into this hobby.
She goes out for a ride even when it rains.
- You mean light rain, right? - When it rains, the road...
- No. - When it rains heavily?
- Yes. She still goes for a ride. - Riding it in the rain must be fun.
Wouldn't she be soaked?
Yes. Because of the rain, she can't see anything...
- wearing the helmet. - Of course.
She rides it even when her view is blocked.
Are there wipers on her helmet or what?
- That does... - There are no wipers.
- sound very dangerous. - Yes.
She keeps riding it knowing that it's dangerous.
Have you ever ridden with her?
Yes, I have.
I was sitting in the back seat. When we were driving over a hill,
- the motorcycle fell over. - Oh, no!
- I almost got injured. - It's not for slow rides.
Yes, she'll need to drive fast on that bike.
- Doesn't she need a license? - She must have one.
- Yes, you need a license. - That's what I thought.
The motorcycle is really big. It's huge for her body.
When it falls over, she can't do anything.
My dad has to come to get it up for her.
(Her dad has to help her every time.)
- That's what happens. - She just stays like this?
Yes. She can't move it at all.
When she comes home, she's usually covered in bruises.
She also gets scraped and bleeds.
- So I tell her to stop riding it. - What does she say to that?
She says that it's her everything.
- She can't live without it. - It's her everything?
I don't see anyone in the audience who'd be a motorcycle rider.
I would imagine that she'd be wearing a bandanna.
- The typical rider look. - I was expecting that look, too.
Ma'am, where are you?
(The mother who loves riding the motorcycle)
- Hello. - Yes, hello.
I didn't expect her to look like that.
She looks like she'd be a leader of a hiking club.
There are many different types of motorcycles.
Some are so called American style bikes. Why do you ride...
that specific model of mountain motorcycle?
About 10 years ago, my husband...
brought a small motorcycle home.
I rode it on the back seat, and I really enjoyed the experience.
That's when I started getting into riding motorcycles.
- I still ride with my husband. - With your husband?
But I'm much better than him now.
- Her husband got her into it. - He started it.
Is your dad here today, too?
- No, he had to go to work. - I see.
- Isn't that gentleman your dad? - No.
- I see. - He's a member of our club.
My husband couldn't be here today because of work,
but he can't understand why this is a worry for our daughter.
- Is that what he said? - He's not worried?
No, he doesn't understand why she is worried.
Many female members of the audience wouldn't understand how it feels.
- Hence, we prepared a video clip. - I want to see it now.
- A video of her riding her bike? - That's right.
We'll get to see her in action!
- Let's see how fierce she is. - We'll find out now.
Look at the size of those motorcycles.
- They must be the members' bikes. - They look so cool.
They look like the ones from "Mad Max".
They look expensive. All of them are high quality motorcycles.
- Oh, my. It looks fun! - They climb up like that?
They climb slopes like that.
(That is the mother.)
- My goodness! - Is that her?
That's her! Oh, my goodness!
- She looks so cool! - Ma'am, you're so cool!
(She drives so fiercely.)
- She's so cool! - Oh, my!
- Bravo! - Did you just see her?
- That speed is impressive. - My goodness.
(We have so much respect for you.)
(It made my jaw drop.)
(Feel the speed!)
- It's like a scene from "Mad Max". - It's so cool.
(She even climbs uphill mountain paths.)
I guess it's dangerous, but it looks so fun.
- It does look really fun. - I should ride it, too.
- Look at that! - It does look very fun.
- It looks like it'll be very fun! - Totally.
- However... - Oh, no.
- It's a dead end. - She can't go up there.
- How will she go up there? - Wouldn't it be impossible?
- Is she going to try it? - It's way too steep.
The motorcycle could flip over.
- It might flip! - Gosh!
(Everyone is nervous.)
The motorcycle could flip over.
- It might flip! - Gosh!
(It looks so scary!)
That does look very dangerous.
- Watch out your feet! - My gosh!
Oh, no. It looks like it'll fall over.
Those are the times when it gets very dangerous.
- Why does she have to go there? - Exactly.
That's not even a path, is it?
- That's how you should ride it. - Those roads are fun.
- That road looks much better. - She rides very well.
- That was very cool. - Impressive.
Ma'am, we can really see how skilled you are.
- She's so cool. - She's a great rider.
Ma'am, how do you feel after watching yourself riding your bike?
I think I look cool.
Is that all you felt?
Riding in the rain or snow is actually more fun.
I enjoy listening to the rain.
When it snows, we go to a field of snow...
and ride on the snow. We also set up our tents to sleep there.
- That sounds amazing. - That is very cool.
Ma'am, isn't it better to drive a car because it's safer?
If I'm asked to choose between an expensive car and a motorcycle,
- I'll choose a motorcycle. - I guess...
- you enjoy the breeze. - Yes, I do.
I'm trying to empathise with the daughter...
and tell the mother to understand how it could worry her daughter,
- but it shouldn't be a worry. - I agree.
- As long as it's safe. - Isn't it okay?
- The members help her out. - She rides with her club members.
- Exactly. - It's honestly so refreshing to us.
- I want to try riding it. - Me too.
- Same here. - From what we watched...
What really worries me is the fact that she rides other things, too.
- Like what? - What does she ride?
(She rides other things, too!)
- She does kayaking, - Goodness.
- ride mountain bike... - Oh, no.
- and goes jet skiing, too. - All those things?
- I see. - Yes.
(She enjoys extreme sports throughout the four seasons.)
(That could worry her daughter.)
- My parents go together. - They both enjoy it.
One day, they were kayaking. The kayak was assembled,
so water seeped in through a crack.
This happened in the middle of the ocean, so they could've died.
Ma'am, tell us what happened. How did you survive that accident?
I like catching clams.
So you were there to catch clams?
- You caught clams on your kayak? - Yes, we did.
- Clams! - They paddled the kayak...
- to catch clams. - They caught clams.
"Clams, where are you guys?"
We went out too far in the sea. I can't swim, so I got nervous.
My husband jumped into the water and pushed...
- the kayak out of the water. - It was an urgent situation.
Back then, I told myself that I'd never go kayaking again.
I thought to myself, "That was so dangerous."
- It really scared me. - Of course.
But my husband said that he could feel clams under his feet.
(She soon forgets about the accident.)
Both of us got in the water and caught more clams.
- That happened once. - You're really impressive.
My parents go out to ride their motorcycles all the time.
That's all they think about,
- so I'm neglected. - Doing it together would be good.
- How do they neglect you? - For example,
let's say that we're eating together.
They share the same hobby, so they have things to talk about.
On the other hand, my sister and I can't even say anything to them.
We can't talk to them,
and we barely see them on weekends.
When you're home with your family, you should have conversations.
She can't talk to you because you only talk about motorcycles.
As you've heard, my husband and I share the same hobby,
so we talk about motorcycles a lot.
My daughters think that it's dangerous.
We can't talk because they keep telling us not to ride motorcycles.
Don't you get curious about your daughters' lives?
Do you ever ask, "Do you have a boyfriend?"
Well, my husband and I usually talk about our hobby.
We mainly talk about motorcycles.
(I'm sad.)
Sir, I'd like to ask you a question.
What do other members think of her?
We all think that she's a very giving, maternal person.
Whether they're fruits or rice cakes, she shares...
- whatever she has with others. - What about for her daughter?
When she leaves home, she tells us to cook for ourselves.
But then, she takes all the cooking utensils and dishes.
- From ladles and pots... - She leaves you with nothing?
- to rice cookers, she takes it all. - Then what do you do?
- You must eat instant noodles. - We have to order food.
- You order food? - Yes.
You can order delicious dishes.
- While her parents are having fun. - I'll ask the other gentleman.
Please tell us how great you think she is.
It's very hard to come by a woman who rides that specific model...
of mountain motorcycle.
These two ladies are the only ones.
- Only those two ladies? - That's correct.
- In the entire country? - That's right.
They are very special ladies.
- In the country? - That's so cool.
- I'm so impressed. - Let's interview that lady.
Are you a member of the club, too?
No, I'm not. I'm his wife.
- I see. - You're his wife.
Do you empathise with her worry?
- Of course I do. - I see.
- I've been so worried, too. - Right.
I tried to stop my husband as well, but he's such a stubborn man.
Frankly speaking, I've given up now.
I just let him ride it these days.
When she tells him to get out, he'd be like, "Nice!"
I actually have another question for you.
Does the fact that you can't share your husband's hobby...
make you lonely at times?
We go for rides together sometimes,
- so it's okay. - I see. You ride with him at times.
You should try riding with your mum too.
Well, that's...
- You don't like it? - No.
I have my own hobby.
- What is it? - Tell us.
I play baseball as a hobby.
(Her hobby is baseball.)
- That's interesting. - Your mum must get worried, too.
- This is getting interesting. - She plays baseball.
Is your mum against it at all?
She is. She called me crazy and said that it's not...
- an appropriate hobby for girls. - You're against each other.
Is it because it looks bad or because it's dangerous?
Because she thinks it's dangerous.
- She thinks it's dangerous? - She also thinks it looks bad.
- I don't get it at all. - Why don't you let her enjoy it?
Baseball isn't that dangerous. Your hobby is much more dangerous.
I got a call one day.
She said she was hit by a baseball...
- and got her nose fractured. - When? How?
She had already made arrangements...
- and got the date for her surgery. - She's so brave.
She told me to come to the hospital on the day of the surgery.
That's how she handled the situation.
She's not a boy.
She's a girl, so I don't want her to...
Ma'am, you're also a woman.
(Look who's talking.)
- Well, in my case... - You're one of the only two women.
- Right, in Korea. - What if her eye was injured?
(Mum, you get injured, too.)
My older sister is a nurse,
and I'm also studying to become a nurse.
When I work at hospitals,
I see many patients who got injured while riding their motorcycles.
Some have fractures. There're people who are in a vegetable state, too.
When my sister and I see those things,
we can't stop thinking about our mum.
- Right. - She rides her motorcycle, too.
Once she went on a tour with people from all over the country.
- Seriously? - Riders from all over Korea came...
- to ride together. - I've heard of it.
- Go on. - They went to a dangerous spot.
Her motorcycle fell off a cliff and rolled all the way down.
Your mum's motorcycle?
(It fell off a cliff.)
- It was a 30m fall. - What happened to your mum?
- She fell with it. - Yes, she rolled down with it.
- Did her body bounce off the bike? - Yes.
- So what happened? - She got a huge bump on her head.
The cartilage on her knee got ripped, so she had to get a surgery.
- My goodness. - Even after that surgery,
she went to ride her motorcycle right away.
- She went for a ride again? - How soon?
- A month later? - As soon as she got home.
- As soon as she was discharged? - Two weeks later.
- Two weeks after the surgery? - Yes.
- You should've stopped her. - You should have.
She was worrying about her motorcycle even at the hospital.
- "What if I can't ride it again?" - She was...
- About it being irreparable? - Yes.
- That's all she was worried about. - That's pretty bad.
(Mum, can you worry about your health first?)
She must be a very good rider.
You should've rested at home after the surgery.
- You did it again in two weeks. - Well...
There was a tour.
- Goodness. - I felt that it'd be okay...
- for me to go for a ride. - Gosh, Ma'am.
- That's too much. - There must've been after effects.
- Right, from the surgery. - In the video,
I noticed that she didn't fasten the straps of her helmet.
She should really wear a chest protector...
as well as a shoulder armour. She should put on all gears.
I do fasten the straps when I first put on the helmet,
but I take it off when I take breaks...
and forget to fasten them again.
- You mustn't forget. - It's dangerous.
- Accidents happen unexpectedly. - That's right.
It's great that you have a hobby, but it's a little too extreme.
Are you going to make sure to wear all gears in the future?
It has been my hobby for such a long time,
so I'd like to continue enjoying it.
I'll wear all the safety gears...
to continue riding my motorcycle.
Ma'am, did something specific prompt you...
to become so focused on this hobby of yours?
- What motivated you? - I'm curious.
Before I got into my hobby,
I took care of my mother-in-law for about 10 years.
She had a stroke, so she couldn't use...
- her right hand and right foot. - That must've been difficult.
So I had to take care of her with meals and...
- Even help her with the toilet. - Yes.
I looked after her for about a year.
That's why my children never get to have family dinners out...
or go on any family vacations.
That's when I started to get...
interested in motorcycles as a hobby.
I think it's not too much for me to ride it...
- as a hobby. - I totally agree with you.
I think the daughter should buy you a motorcycle.
- You should buy her one later. - Do you see...
- where your mum's coming from? - Yes.
I understood her in the beginning,
but I wish she wouldn't ride in the mountains.
Do you only want her to travel to and from the market?
Yes. I want her to wear safety gear.
You want her to ride a 25 thousand dollar motorcycle to the market?
- Her pride won't allow it. - Of course not.
No. She needs to drive at 150km per hour.
The thing is, my mum can't drive a car.
She should just drive her motorcycle within the vicinity of our area.
The beauty of motorcycles is that it's built for mountains...
- so that's where you ride them. - That's true.
It's wrong to not use it for its purpose.
Your daughter is worried about you.
She thinks you might hurt yourself.
- I think what she wants most is... - She wants to hang out with you.
to spend more time with you.
I think that's why she's upset.
- I can see that. - That's right.
What do you want to do the most with your mum?
Ever since I was born, I have never gone on...
- a trip with my family. - Really?
- Not even once. - That's too much.
I want our family to go on a trip...
- and create good memories. - This is kind of ironic.
She's the type to enjoy trips.
Why didn't she go with her family?
- The husband... My husband... - The husband?
- Are you not close with him? - He only gets time off...
at the end of the year and on lunar new year.
That doesn't make sense.
You said he came to ride with you.
He would come only if he doesn't have work.
Work comes first.
You should go on a trip when he doesn't work.
- Even if it's just a day... - Our schedules didn't match.
- Sorry. - That's why we couldn't go.
They're always hanging out with their club members.
Our extended family goes on a three days trip every new year.
Everyone on my mum's side goes, but my parents never came.
- Just your mum? - Both my mum and my dad.
- That's strange. - They're busy with their friends.
- That's upsetting. - Yes.
- Is it to watch the first sunrise? - Yes.
Can't you ride your motorcycle on the trip?
I treat my family really well...
on a regular basis.
I'm always good to them.
We never said you treated them badly, I'm saying it's just for one day.
Why do you have to go see your friends on that day?
We had already planned to go with them every year.
It's not just because the schedules didn't match, is it?
Tell us the truth. Do you prefer to hang out with your club members?
- Yes. - Of course.
- I knew it. - That's upsetting.
I think this hobby has...
a special meaning for you.
It's like you're spending time for yourself...
as a compensation. What do you think?
Of course I want to be compensated.
From now on, I'll try to travel and...
- spend more time with the kids. - Great.
- You should. - That's your plan for the future.
- I'm talking about up until now. - Yes.
Do you have any last words for your mum?
I wish you would spend more time and create more memories...
with us than with your club members.
Also, I want you to be careful...
when you're riding.
All right. Let's start with Jung Min.
Do you think it's a worry? Press the button.
- It's not a worry? - No.
- Woo Hyun. - I think as long as she's careful,
- It's not a big deal? - it's not so bad.
It's just her hobby.
- I don't think it's a worry either. - Okay.
- They both need to work together. - I agree.
I think they will now...
work on enjoying their lives together.
I agree. Your mum will soon be in menopause.
I think finding a hobby for herself...
is a big deal. I don't think this is a worry.
I think it's a worry. I'll give the daughter my vote.
As a daughter-in-law, she really worked hard...
to do her duty. She deserves our praises.
However, the children had to wait for their mum...
when they needed her the most.
I don't think she means for you to stop. It's a matter of adjusting.
I agree with you on that point.
Kids her age don't want to hang out with their mums.
She's yearning for it because she never had a chance.
Exactly. She never had it.
- Is that it? You're teary. - When your grandma was sick...
(I'm sorry.)
You had to let your mum go to your grandma, right?
- She was never around. - Exactly.
When we were young, we couldn't whine because...
she had to take care of grandma.
- You wouldn't dare. - We never even asked.
I didn't complain once about not being able to go out...
like how other families did.
Once my grandma passed away,
she bought a motorcycle and she was always out.
It was always just my sister and me.
I think the mother should acknowledge this.
- I'm glad you came. - Yes.
If you think this is a worry for the daughter, press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- Five, four, three... - Five, four, three...
- two, one. That's it. - two, one. Stop.
It must be hurtful.
Why don't you say a few words to your daughter?
Let's go on family trips starting from next year.
- Equipment. - I promise to wear safety gear,
and I'll be careful. I'll go riding once a month or so.
- Something like that. - That's good.
You should also promise to go see the sunrise on new year.
As for the sunrise...
- I... - Just say yes.
The club members should tell her not to come.
We have an event every year with our club members.
I can't miss that, but...
- we'll go on other trips instead. - Okay.
- Okay. - Yes.
Show us the result.
What will they get? The winner is currently at 181.
(The last number is three.)
- If it's 183, - It's past 100 votes.
the winner will change.
It's 103 votes.
- Mum... - It's half and half.
and daughter. Okay.
- Hello. Hello. - It's "Hello News".
(Hello)
There have been many positive changes...
with our previous guests.
- Let's see who has good news today. - Okay.
I'm 26-years-old, and my husband to be is 40...
Why are you surprised already? And seven. He's 47-years-old.
I went to a department store. I paid and I was walking out.
They were whispering that my husband must have...
bought me with money.
We were preparing for the wedding, but I felt so guilty.
What did you think when you found out about him?
I thought my world came to an end.
I told her we should never see each other again.
- That's the story. - She was against them.
They were dating with a 21 years difference.
I wonder how it changed.
- Hello. - Hello.
They look different.
A lot of people started to support us.
It's been hectic preparing for the wedding.
I don't see the age difference as much.
- I agree. - A lot of our acquaintances...
called and told us they cried while watching the show.
Some people that walk by tell me I look old.
(It's a strange way to comfort her.)
Tell me that I look old.
Most people said that...
we look good together, and they congratulate us.
As for me, most people are just envious.
They said I must have stayed single until I was 47...
to find her.
How sweet.
(What do you think of our couple?)
They look so happy.
As long as we think we're a good match, age doesn't matter.
Age doesn't matter.
I think that's amazing.
They must love each other a lot.
I don't think he looks that much older than her. They look good.
(Most people are positive about their age difference.)
(It's finally their wedding day.)
- It's their wedding day. They're getting married.
Our team even went to capture the wedding.
(Today's beautiful bride...)
(is waiting to greet her guests.)
I wish I could wear that dress one day.
I love you.
(I love my wife.)
It looks great.
(Everyone is smiling at his determined voice.)
(The couple is walking down the aisle of blessings.)
(It's an emotional moment for the bride's mother.)
(Thank you for trusting me.)
(Although she was against him because of his age,)
(she's giving her son-in-law a warm hug.)
She gave him a warm hug.
(The daughter is bravely walking her own path.)
Congratulations.
(That's so beautiful.)
(The ceremony ends with the applause from everyone.)
(The mother of the bride...)
(hopes she could encourage her daughter.)
I think we were able to get married...
thanks to Hello.
It's a show I'll remember forever.
I can't be any more thankful.
- That's so sweet. - Thank you, everyone.
My goodness.
(Congratulations)
They look so happy.
With that, "Let's Break Up" has won for the fifth time!
Congratulations!
They will get a prize money of 10,000 dollars!
It's been a while since we've had a fifth win.
Until the day we are all worry free...
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you. - Thank you.
- Congratulations. - Congratulations.
("Back Again" by KNK)